Minimalism at Christmas.

Gift giving becomes a pain in the neck the older we get and the longer we’ve known someone.

I’m turning thirty soon and I’ve asked all my family and friends to donate to a charity of their choice. I have no idea if they’ll do this, but as long as I’m not bombarded with unnecessary objects I’ll be happy. A voucher, an experience, these are all welcome too. I almost asked for a book from their shelves they’re happy to part with, but I know what I’m like with my unhealthy obsession with staring at then organising my books without reading them.

So, onto Christmas. Firstly, make a plan a month before you want to start shopping! Write down all gifts you’re thinking of giving, keep adding to this list, then sit back and analyse it. Ask yourself:

Do they really need it?

Will it add value to their lives?

Is there a better gift you think they’ll be happy with?

I did my psychology thesis on gift giving and found out that when we judge whether or not this person will like the gift, it’s often tied up in our own enjoyment of the gift too. So try think more objectively and put yourself in their shoes.

If you’re on a budget but really want to buy someone a gift, then go charity shopping. That’s what I’ve done a few times, and there’s some real gems out there. A few books only cost a few pound. Also, hunt around online and to find a cheaper deal. It may take time but it’ll be worth it when you find that coffee maker 50% cheaper than in the shops.

In regards to what you wish to receive, don’t be afraid to tell people you’re decluttering, or that you’re trying to be more minimalistic. Tell them an experience would be lovely, but if they can’t afford one a few bits of food would come in handy over the Christmas period. People won’t be as offended as you think, they might even take inspiration from you!

To conclude, Christmas, and any other gift giving occasion, can add happiness, and not clutter to your life, if you take that leap of courage to tell everyone. I believe in you!

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