None of us like that one cupboard, or closet, or the paperwork that sits there, staring at us, laughing at us. Shouting at us that we’re always going to stay like this, that you don’t have the guts to throw any of us out. We’re ashamed. Professional organisers say that shame is a root feeling for most of their clients. Shame is a feeling of being unworthy, bad or wrong, and it’s quite uncomfortable to experience. Shame is different from guilt or embarrassment, because shame